10 signs you’re a people pleaser

Are you a people pleaser?

  • When someone asks you for a favor — no matter how exhausted you are or how overwhelming your to-do list is — you still feel obligated to say ‘yes’

  • …or maybe you want to say ‘no’, but you feel guilty about it.

  • …or you don’t know how to say it without coming off like a selfish, lazy a**hole.

  • …or you feel the need to justify your ‘no’, so you overexplain yourself, or conjure up a good-enough excuse

  • This mental gymnastics goes on for almost every decision in your life, and it’s exhausting. You’re tired of being tired.

  • You really want to take time out for rest and just enjoying life, but you feel beholden to the needs + expectations of others.

  • The thought of letting someone down feels too painful, so you soldier on until you are depressed, sick, or in pain.

  • You avoid having difficult conversations or letting someone know they’ve crossed a line because you don’t want to hurt their feelings.

  • You feel resentful because people aren’t as considerate of you as you are of them.

  • You spend so much time focusing on how others perceive you, you don’t know how to just be yourself.

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